A victor, not a victim

10 May

Today I was talking with a dear friend about how, no matter what we’re going through, we are not to view ourselves as victims. She said to me something along the lines of, “We are not victims. We are victors because of Christ. It is about him, not about our suffering.”


And, after our conversation, I began to wonder and almost worry: Have I conveyed that completely in each blog I post about difficult times and the things I’m going through?

Just incase…let me be clear:

I am not a victim. I am a VICTOR. And only through Christ and what he did for me on the Cross.

Life’s gonna knock me down.
It’s not gonna keep me down.
I’m gonna trust You now, in every season.
I know You’re here.
I know You’re for me.
I know that joy comes in the morning.
God, I believe it now.
God, I believe You now.

{Britt Nicole – Who You Say You Are}



13 Responses to “A victor, not a victim”

  1. cindyhfrench May 10, 2012 at 10:21 pm #

    Jen, did you not get my urgent request that you hook me up with your friend “mymansrib”? I have had RSD Jen. I have to talk to her. But I can’t find anywhere on her blog to respond to her or comment anything. help!

    • Jennifer Hope May 10, 2012 at 10:29 pm #

      Hi Cindy! Yes, sorry for the delay! Her email is mymansrib@gmail.com (her name is Holly)

      • cindyhfrench May 10, 2012 at 10:34 pm #

        CAN you even BELIEVE that you would email me about her and say you probably never heard of this, but you can google it. I thought I would die right there. LOL
        God is so good and all day long, He had been making these incredible connections! and here was one more! Simply unbelievable! Except to us folks who know the Lord God who WAS and IS and IS to COME!

  2. Jennifer N. Buczynski May 10, 2012 at 10:26 pm #

    Woo!! This is powerful.
    And for the above posted, cindyhfrench, you are a victor! Not a victim! And so is mymansrib! God bless you both!!

    • cindyhfrench May 10, 2012 at 10:30 pm #

      why thank you jennifer buczynski! yes, praise God! I am not a victim. I am a princess-cause I am a child of the KING!

      • Jennifer N. Buczynski May 10, 2012 at 10:34 pm #

        YES! Hallelujah. Thank You Lord!

      • cindyhfrench May 10, 2012 at 10:39 pm #

        so I guess you blog too? and what about and what’s the address? love to visit anyone who is a fellow believer in my Jesus Christ!
        my blog is called “Stranger Than Fiction-Life Stories”
        http;//cindyhfrench.com I think or you may have to add the s. My life has been so strange and crazy that no one really believes that I have had all the things happen to me that have happened to me! But God has been working on me for a long time and it took all those things to bring me to where I am now.
        Not finished, but a whole lot better than where I was.

      • Jennifer N. Buczynski May 10, 2012 at 10:40 pm #

        Yes I blog too šŸ™‚ I just followed you, so you should be able to get to the blog, but if not, it’s jenniferbuczynski.wordpress.com !

      • Jennifer N. Buczynski May 10, 2012 at 10:41 pm #

        Oh, and I blog about God speaking to me, how and what He says, and random topics about the Lord and His word!

  3. mymansrib May 10, 2012 at 11:00 pm #

    Yes indeed.
    Jesus is our victorious Victor. All because of who He is, we can come out of the dark. Win. Gloriously and to glorify Him. No victims.
    Jennifer,, your blog is a well written epistle of an intimate love relationship with the Victor. It testifies of His greatness and your responsiveness to Him and His greatness.
    I love it!!!
    Ps to all: Let us focus more-yet-more on Him. God-awareness based on Truth. The Word of the Lord. Genesis to the Revelation. He is not just our means to self-awareness, except that awareness be lost in Him.
    Awareness of Him leads to responsiveness to His greatness. His holiness. His love.
    Responsiveness to God is proven in specific, detailed acts of obedience. This blog chronicles an accurate and well-thinking journey further up and further in.
    And I will speak as one who walks with, this little darling is real.
    Keep going my dear one.

    • cindyhfrench May 10, 2012 at 11:05 pm #

      holly (mymansrib) I will get to your blog and email tomorrow as my man has said, come to bed now. but I had RSD too. I do want to talk to you about it and what they are doing for you-are they treating it as a form or RA?

  4. Desiray May 11, 2012 at 11:52 am #

    James asked us the same question do you see yourself as defeated or over-comer? We have must change our perspective. Jesus overcame and we overcome..AMEN

    • Jennifer Hope May 11, 2012 at 11:40 pm #

      “Overcame” always reminds me of the Jeremy Camp song. Love it! Thanks for stopping by!!

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